Friday, March 5, 2010

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What do you advise if I don't find my wife attractive anymore and she refuses to diet or exercise, insisting it is my problem for having unrealistic expectations of her post-marital appearance? She's gone from 130 to 240 lbs.

I'm no therapist, but maybe I can help. First of all, are you fit and healthy? If so, have you asked her why she doesn't care to be the same? Tell her you love her no matter what, but that her weight is making you not attracted to her anymore. It's harsh, but it looks like that is what it has come to. I'm sorry, dude, that is a tough situation. :(

Anything! Keep in mind that I answer them in the order I receive them and usually only 3 at a time, so be patient!

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